We can speak of an affective lack when during the first years of life the little ones suffer lack of care, attention, attachment or protection on the part of the adults in their environment who usually take care of them. Definitely, when the child does not get the love he needs.
For this reason, it is necessary that in this early childhood children receive continuous signs of love in the form of caresses, hugs, kisses or words of affection that stimulate their neuronal development and give adequate brain maturation. The problem is that in today's society, parents have to face various obstacles such as: inappropriate hours for family reconciliation or the still existing economic crisis to provide the necessary affection for the correct development of their children.
Children who do not feel loved by their parents may end up developing more or less serious psychological disorders. When the child does not receive the love he needs, the consequences of this lack of affection and attention can in some circumstances become irremediable, so it is important that adults be attentive to whether symptoms such as:
- Poor social skills and underdeveloped language for his age. Little ones have a hard time building relationships with their peers.
- Sudden changes in behavior and irritability.
- Delay in physical development. Growth slows down when compared to other children his age.
- More prone to illness. A child with a lack of affection may have a depressed immune system, with fewer defense mechanisms to help fight infection.
- Distrust of most people. They find it difficult to trust others. Not feeling safe and fearing for their physical integrity, they are always alert to what is happening around them.
- Fear of abandonment. This is an almost innate feeling in children who do not receive enough emotional support from those around them.
- Trouble Express your feelings assertively.
- Problems in controlling your impulses. Within the context in which he is, the child may behave the same in a violent way, be self-conscious, be melancholic or tearful.
- Attention problems.
- The child shows anxiety. A minor who does not receive enough affection can develop chronic stress that will affect both his physical and emotional development.
It is important that these symptoms do not go unattended. If they are allowed to pass, it is very likely that these children have poor social skills and will be emotionally dependent when they reach adulthood. So, to help them and not stop being served we can:
- Strengthen the bond with the children listening to their opinions, and helping them with their problems.
- Use the ways to give love and physical affection such as: caress, kiss and hugr.
- Do all kinds of activities together such as going for walks, playing in the park, doing housework, etc.
- Share game moments with the little ones.
- In summary, spend as much time as possible with the children.
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